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Alternative Altars

& New Traditions

Let’s talk about elopements! They’re not just a courthouse dash or some hush-hush secret anymore. Nope, we’re flipping the script! Elopements are all about ditching the stress and financial obligation of big, traditional weddings and focusing on what really matters: your love, your vibe, and having a day that feels 100% you. Smaller ceremonies are where it’s at: intimate, meaningful, and totally stress-free. You get to soak in every moment without worrying about seating charts or Aunt Carol’s third cousin. It’s about making your day magical, personal, and unforgettable. No fluff, just love.

Escape, Elope, Exhale

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One Night Package

$1900 Weekday (Monday-Thursday) Summer Season (April-October)

$2200 Weekend (Friday-Sunday) Summer Season (April-October)

$1300 Weekday (Monday-Thursday) Winter Season (November-March)

$1450 Weekend (Friday-Sunday) Winter Season (November-March)

Perfect for: Two lovebirds ready to say “I do” in the simplest, sweetest way.

  • Guest Count: Just you two, (we provide your witness, but you are welcome to bring up to 6 additional guests of your own as your witnesses, who may stay for photography)

    What’s Included in the package, once securing your date for a night for two in our French Victorian Farmhouse Suite:

    • Say your vows using our officiant and witness overlooking the natural pond, or at a place of your choice on the expansive property.

    • 25% off your lodging rate for two. No minimum nightly requirement.

      COUPON CODE: WESAYWEDEUX

    • A complimentary sparkling cider or champagne toast to kick off your happily ever after.

    • Two bouquets or boutonnieres made of dried local flowers.

    • A $100 gift certificate to one of our favorite local restaurants for a post-celebratory meal in style. We will arrange reservations for your dinner.

    • Access to our curated list of local vendors for photography, hair, makeup, or other post-elopement mini-honeymoon enhancements (think boutique hotels, adventures, excursions, experiences, and relaxation).

    • Gifted locally baked goods (including some small personal wedding cakes) and beverages

    • A private visit with our farm animals for your photos (say whaaaaat?!)

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Love Deeply, Celebrate Intimately

Planning your elopement at We Deux Farm is simple, sweet, and completely customizable.

  1. Start by choosing the dates you want to stay with us. (Any weekend days booked in conjunction with a weekday are considered a weekend package).

  2. Once your stay is selected, pick the elopement package that fits your season and schedule:

    • Winter (November–March)

    • Summer (April–October)

    • Weekday (Monday-Thursday)

    • Weekend (Friday-Sunday)

  3. 25% coupon code for your lodging: WESAYWEDEUX

  4. After you’ve selected your package, follow the prompts through to checkout to finalize your reservation.

After booking, keep an eye out in your inbox for your booking questionnaire, so we can customize all the special details, and streamline your perfect day!

    • Elopements are limited to 6 additional guests total, plus 1 photographer. Any add-on vendors will be included in your guest count (hair, makeup, caterers, videographers, content creators, etc.)

    • We provide the officiant and witness, unless you prefer to bring your own, which will be counted in your guest count.

    • All guests and vendors must depart by 9:00 PM.

    • Ceremony timing varies by season and is requested via questionnaire. It can be flexible day-of ceremony, weather permitting.

    • A 50% non-refundable deposit is required to reserve your date, with full payment due 14 days before your reservation.

    • One reschedule permitted within 12 months, subject to availability.

    • Sauna, deck, and soaking tub use is at guest discretion and risk. (Soaking tubs and deck available summer 2026)

    • Your elopement customization questionnaire must be completed 14 days after booking so we can make your day as special as possible. (If it is a last-minute booking, ASAP is preferred.)

    • Please read the FAQ section at the bottom of the page for more information.

    • Please read your reservation booking agreement before arrival to the property. This has a lot of valuable information.

    • This is a working farm. There may be construction at any time on various parts of the property. The seasonal aesthetic condition of the fields, or growth in the pond can not be guaranteed, and are out of our control.

Save Your “We Deux!” Date

A couple standing on a dock holding paddles by a lake, surrounded by trees.

Why We’re Different…

  • We’re Richie and Caitlin, the husband-and-wife duo behind We Deux Farm. We’re all about love, simplicity, and creating a space where your big day feels as special, and as stress-free, as it should be.

    Our story? Coming from complicated family dynamics, we decided to skip the stress of a big wedding and elope. We had a really hard time finding exactly what we were looking for all in one place: an officiant, a witness, a place to stay, and a beautiful place to tie the knot. Once we gathered all the pieces together, we got married on our own, and celebrated afterwards with our family and friends in a laid-back way that felt best for us.

    It was the best decision we ever made, and now we’re on a mission to give other couples the chance to say “I do” in a way that’s personal, intimate, and 100% you. We are taking the guesswork out of the logistics of eloping, and making it simple and fun.

    Nestled right here in the beautiful Grass Valley, California foothills, our venue is a little slice of heaven designed with care. It’s perfect for couples who crave a private, peaceful vibe, free from all the noise (both literal and metaphorical) of big, traditional weddings

  • Picture this: your wedding day, totally stress-free and overflowing with love, laughter, and the freedom to do things your way. When you arrive, you’ll step into a dreamy setting of majestic redwoods, wildflowers, furry farm friends, and a vibe that feels like pure magic.

    Settle in and start getting ready at your own pace. Bring your photographer (or meet them here) to capture the sweetest moments, including a first look if you’d like. Whether it’s under the trees, with the blooms, or above our spring-fed pond, you’ll have the perfect backdrop for your "I do’s."

    When the moment comes, our officiant will guide you through a heartfelt, custom ceremony tailored to your love story. Vows are exchanged, toast is poured, and you’ll soak in the joy of the moment.

    Afterward, it’s time for photos and exploring the property at your own pace before your dinner reservation, including extra time with the farm animals for photos!

    Then, unwind in true style. Watch an outdoor movie under the stars, roast marshmallows by the fire pit, or soak in the outdoor tubs. Sip on wine and snack on complimentary treats from our favorite local farms as the perfect end to your day.

    This isn’t just a wedding! It’s your love story, celebrated your way. Big love doesn’t always need a big crowd, just you two and a day to remember forever.

  • Situated on 9 rolling acres in the rural countryside of Grass Valley, California, this property is a true refuge from the city. The air is clear, the grass is green, and the pond adds true natural beauty to the landscape.

    With goats, cows, livestock guardian dogs, and cats taking residence, each with a job on the farm. They eat down brush and grass, protect the animals and secure the border, and take care of pests.

    Plans for the property include total farm permaculture design, incorporating native plants and sustainable farming practices.

    The property is host to our fully renovated farm stay in our gorgeous blue Victorian Farmhouse. Inside, you will find a stocked tea apothecary, hidden indoor sauna, and full library.

    Venture outside to our newlywed’s soaking tubs overlooking the pond for evening star-gazing.

Save The Date For Your Perfect Day Below

After booking, keep an eye out in your inbox for your booking questionnaire, so we can customize all the special details, and streamline your perfect day!

20% coupon code for lodging with your elopement package: WESAYWEDEUX

Drop a line…

We’d love to hear from you! Whether you’re ready to book your elopement, have a few questions, or just want to chat about your vision, we’re here to help. Fill out the form below, and let us know what’s on your mind. We’ll get back to you as soon as possible and can’t wait to start planning your dream day together!!